Thursday, February 23, 2006
IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO
If romanticism is "saying I love you every time" or "calling honey/love/darling to spouse" or "candle light dinner", no we never did that, but if twenty one years of living together legally without any scratch, bruise, is romanticism, yes we are. Why every time we try to call our spouse with "honey" or "darling", we always make a joke on it, "honey? hanibal?" or "darling? dadar guling" , we just calling each other by our name itself, so no wonder when our youngest son began to talk, he called his father "Hendro" instead of bapak, but still call me "ibu" not Rieke.
We never in a big fight, he never prevent me when I want to hang out with my friends, I feel more secure leave the children with him.. he is cool so what do I expect more?.. none, To have and to Hold, in sickness and in health till death do us part....
Marriage is. . . . .
■ the only war where you sleep with the enemy.~ Gary Busey
■ a career which brings about more benefits than many others. ~ Simone de Beauvoir
■ a contract, Love is a feeling, and a Relationship is work. ~ Lori Gordon
■ not a word; it is a sentence. ~ King Vigor
Quotation on marriage
■ Any fool can have a trophy wife. It takes a real man to have a trophy marriage. ~ Diane Sollee,
■ The secret to having a good marriage is to understand that marriage must be total, it must be permanent and it must be equal. ~ Frank Pittman
■ Bad marriages don't cause infidelity; infidelity causes bad marriages. ~ Frank Pittman
■ The development of a really good marriage is not a natural process. It is an achievement. ~ David and Vera Mace